1. DO. The work on yourself first. Banish, release and heal before you bring a partner into your life. Banish negative cycles, Release all past emotional pain from past relationships, Heal all trauma, this may mean trauma from when you were little or even generational trauma (for example, they all say great grandma died an old, lonely spinster... If you feel this energy is a curse on you then talk to your great Grandmother in spirit, help her to heal her traumas, (yes she may be a ghost but trust me, they know, they hear us and they can help us in many ways). Heal past life trauma. It is hard to keep this part short so if you need help with this please book me for a personal Empowerment session and we can work on these things together.
2. DON'T, ever, never, ever cast a Love Spell on someone specific! They say you should never start a romance with a kidnapping and that is what this means! You cannot use your magick to make someone (that you know) fall in love with you NO MATTER how much you believe the two of you are ment to be together!
3. DO research, timing matters when it comes to casting Spells, if you want good results from your Love Spell (and I'm pretty sure if your reading this ya do!) look into what is happening in the cosmos, cast Love Spell's on a Friday, this is Freya's day and she rules over Love. Do cast Love Spells when the Moon is waxing (getting bigger) this is when the energy is growing and you can weave your intentions for positive results.
4. DON'T, please don't cast Love Spells when Mercury is in retrograde or when there is a Lunar or Solar eclipse! The energy of the universe is not in your favour at this time, its actually chaotic. Don't cast a Love Spell when the Moon is waning (growing smaller) this is when the energy of the Moon is better suited for banishing and sending things away.
5. DO, get specific about the type of person you wish to manifest. Write a list of personality traits, morals and beliefs that you feel would match beautifully to yours. Grab a red, pink or white candle, cast a magickal circle around you, invite your spirit guides to help you, invite the elements and then you can carve your candle with symbols of love (hearts), manifestation (a pentacle), the Rune Gifu meaning partnership (an X shape). You can roll this candle in your favourite oils and herbs, Rose is the most powerful for Love Spells, Cinnamon always brings positivity and joy, rub it into the symbols you have carved. Light your candle and ask a God or Goddess of Love to hear your wishes to manifest the best match for you, someone to stand by your side. Read out loud all the qualities you have written down and burn them, saying FOR THE GOOD OF ALL, SO SHALL IT BE! At the end. You may watch the candle burn down to nothing, dreaming of your magickal future. Thank the Gods, your guides in spirit and the elements for their assistance, and finally open your circle.
6. DON'T, obsess over the Spell's outcome. Once your Spell has been cast you must allow the universe to do its thing, you must now TRUST that the perfect partner for you will simply turn up, arriving in divine timing, you need do nothing else now but focus on yourself, even though it might be really hard to do nothing but pine for your lover, TRY to enjoy the last few weeks or months you have left of being single, think of it this way, you now only have a few weeks left of being single for the rest of your life!.. What do you want to accomplish right now, or what do you need to complete? Have you got loose ends to tie up? Make a check list and cross each thing off before the love of your life arrives.
7. DO, try as much as you can to stay in your present. Enjoy the present moment, enjoy your family and your friends, your pets, your home, enjoy what you have in your life right now and be grateful for it. Being grateful is such an underestimated power that we all can use so easily. Grab a notebook and each day write down what you are grateful for, if you think you have nothing start at the basics, for example, I am grateful for having fresh air to breathe. I am grateful for the water running in my taps. I am grateful for the roof over my head, a comfortable bed, my morning coffee... Staying present and being grateful are the most powerful tools of manifestation!
8. DON'T be impatient! Now that you have cast your Spell, relax! We all manifest best when we are relaxed and calm, love Spell's can be so tricky as they are often resorted to as a last option, the seeker is usually at a point of desperation, tired of being on their own, lonely and in an all consuming mindset of stress and worry. This is not the energy you want to bring to a Love Spell, trust me! Let go of control now, trust that the universe is conspiring in your favour.
Now go forth and cast your Love Spell! With magickal blessings from Natasha xx
